Just noting down all the questions and topics that come to my mind while I think of a potential life partner. This is not an extensive list, but merely a starting point for meaningful conversations. This is not by order of importance at all.
- What gave away I am introvert? What are you?
- I am not the partying kind. I get awkward socially. I can't dance. If I do, I look like a donkey.
- I have fear of falling again in love as badly as last time and inviting the same pain again if you decide not to be together.
- I don't want to get attached again. Don't want to form another attachment which would cause me pain if there's a fallout.
- Health is a non negotiable: Not asking you to change yourself directly, but be open to hearing ideas and study a bit on the topic to gain a better health, fit body.
- I would prefer someone who is not girlish (by girlish I mean the typical filmy girl who can't do anything on her own, pulls off the abla naari card every now and then), be independent. For example, I would like someone who takes less time to get ready and doesn't do too much sajna sanwarna each and every time.
- Honesty - no fake - be direct - no layer/filter - be your real self - no sophistication for the sake of it
- No politics
- No showoff, no fake appearance or language or look certain way or speak certain way.
- What's your method/process to decide if someone is good for getting married to?
- Didn't find any suitable person so far? Why did it not work? Did you reject them? Why?
- How important is it for you to know someone before marrying them?
- How to know each other? Any possiblity to stay together for sometime?
- Fell for someone? How many times?
- What do u think about marriage?
- Family? Living with them?
- Future arrangement? Prefer bustling city or back home small town/village?
- Kids
- My negatives - blunt, overthinker, emotional attachment issues, nerdy, frugal (+ve), simple, no showoff, non conformist, realist (borderline pessimist - I think worst case scenario to subvert disappointment later), sarcasm, very slow in life generally, last one in queue, slow eater, plan ahead to be able to afford being slow, chilled, relaxed and laidback in routine things, predictable things, mundane stuff. Super fast in things excited about.
- Barely lower middle class - is that fine?
- Religious views? God?
- Most traumatic experience? Its residue in your present?
- Happiness? What brings you joy?
- Ride bike? Learn? Swimming?
- Paragliding, scuba diving, rafting, sky diving, etc?
1/05/2025 03:19:00 pm
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